Must Reads of 2013: Rape Culture Edition
I read a whole hell of a lot of stuff about rape culture. I know - I'm a real hoot at parties. One of the most popular questions I receive is 'What's a good primer on rape culture? What's a good blog post / article / book that I can share with folks who don't believe me when I say rape culture is a thing that exists?'
Here's my list of best takedowns of rape culture for 2013 (in no particular order).
2013 : Year in Review
It's the time of year for reflection and 2013, you were one helluva ride.
This is why we need to talk about sexual violence and social media
It seemed a fairly straight forward piece. A piece that barely mentioned the Rehtaeh Parsons case. Read it for yourself; you'll see that her story was but a blip in the entire piece.
It seems that my article made its way to the 'Defend the Boys' camp.
I assume that's what happened, because it's the only explanation for the following two e-mails in my inbox.
WARNING: THIS STUFF IS NASTY, VICTIM-BLAMING 101 CRAP. Please exercise self-care. Seriously. It's awful.
Myths about sexual violence and social media
[This post deals with sexual violence and social media, including explicit descriptions of sexual violence. Please exercise self-care.]
As an feminist in the 21st century and a public educator, I've had to do a lot of thinking about social media and its connections to sexual violence.
What I've learned is that there exists a ton of myths about it. This makes sense when you consider that social media is a really recent phenomenon and therefore, we're grappling with how to deal with it; not simply in its relationship to violence, but how it's shaping our world in a host of new ways we have yet to really understand.
There are few people who are talking about sexual violence and social media and I would argue, there are even fewer people than that who are getting it right. For an amazing example of people who are getting it right, check out Steph Guthrie and Jessica Spence's piece at WiTOpoli.
This list of myths could easily have been an FAQ because I find myself answering a lot of questions from well intentioned folks who are really at a loss with how to deal.
Buckle your seat belts, kids!